So What Is It’s A Man Thingy

Today I will be starting my new blog. It’s A Male Thingy was an idea I have had for the past 3 years. So I figured the best way to start is by telling you all a little about myself and why I created this blog. I will make it quick and short.

I was born and raised in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. My dad was always out working or disappearing from time to time. That left my mom to raise my 2 sisters and I. Now my mom had no college education. She worked in a factory in Brooklyn and had the neighbors who were Hasidic Jews babysit us everyday. If it was not for their kindness and generosity, I think it would have been nearly impossible for my mom to work.

My Mother knew that at some point she would have to do something to make more money so that she could provide for her 3 children. My mom saw the a local college was offering adult education classes at the local church. Mother knew this was the opportunity she had been waiting for and enrolled in the college night classes. Every night after she came out of work, she would go to the classes. in the meantime we were being watched over by her extremely kind neighbors. They would feed us, do homework with us and everything else a parent would do with their own kids.

After 5 years of working and going to classes, my mom graduated from college with a 4.0 average and a member of Alpha Sigma Lambda. That was the beginning of her teaching us values, hard work and determination.I knew if she could do it…any one could do it.

Over the years she taught me everything from cooking, sewing, shopping, laundry, cleaning to how to treat a woman with honor, respect and dignity. This is where this website comes into play.

I worked in the restaurant business for over 15 years. I was an Executive chef (thanks to my mom who taught me how to cook). During my time as a chef I saw it all….Drunks, sexual harassment, very foul language, putting woman down, aggressive male behavior I mean you would not believe what goes on in the kitchen and at the bar.

From personal experience I also saw how men treated woman and how us we as men feel that we are the MAN in charge. Seriously how many men know how to change a diaper, sew a hem, do laundry all while raising your children who are running around the house like crazy. I bet the percentage is very slim. When you really look at the facts….How many men can survive on their own if the woman was not there and they had to raise their children on their own? If you start with them when they are young as my mom did with me, believe me they will grow up to be that guy every woman wants. If as a man you teach them that woman must do what men say, and they see the way you treat your own woman, well then he will have problems with woman as he reaches adulthood.

I tip my hat off to those who are raising their children, paying child support and treating woman like gold. So you see everyone the purpose of this website is to educate men and educate woman about men. If you have any interesting articles, videos or stories you would like to share please feel free to contact me at itsamanthingy@gmail.com